Edging (sexual practice)
Edging, sometimes also referred to as gooning[1][2][Note 1] or surfing,[3] is a sexual technique whereby an orgasm is controlled (that is, delayed or prevented). It is practiced alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period without reaching climax.[4] Orgasm control involves either sex partner being in control of the other partner's orgasm, or a person delaying their own orgasm during sexual activity with a partner or through masturbation. Any method of sexual stimulation can be used to experience controlled orgasm.[5]
When the controlled orgasm is achieved, the physical sensations are greater as compared to conventional orgasm. Orgasm control has also been referred to as "slow masturbation" and "extended massive orgasm".[6][3] When practiced by males, direct sexual stimulation without the refractory period after orgasm is sometimes possible.[7][disputed – discuss][better source needed]
Edging should not be confused with edgeplay, which is a sexual practice distinct from edging. It should also not be confused with premature ejaculation, retrograde ejaculation, or the inability to orgasm, all of which describe involuntary medical conditions.[5]
The terms edging and gooning have been adopted by Generation Alpha as brainrot terminology, gaining popularity on TikTok.[8][9]
In partnered sex
[edit]During intercourse or other forms of sexual stimulation with a partner, one person stimulates the other(s) and reduces the level of stimulation when approaching orgasm. Erotic sexual denial occurs when the partner who is in control of the other partner's orgasm prolongs the orgasm to allow for an increased level of sexual tension.[5] When a partner eventually provides enough stimulation to achieve an orgasm, it may be stronger than usual due to increased tension and arousal that builds up during the extended stimulation.[10] An example of the use of orgasm control in partnered sex can be seen in BDSM; the partner whose orgasm is being controlled (sometimes referred to as the submissive partner) can be tied up.[10][11] (the activity is sometimes called tie and tease; if orgasm is denied, it is then known as tease and denial).[12]
In masturbation
[edit]When practicing alone in masturbation, orgasm control can heighten sexual pleasure. For a woman, the practitioner can enjoy direct sexual stimulation for longer periods, as well as increasing frequency and intensity. For a man, the speed of masturbation may vary to navigate right to the edge of ejaculation. With orgasm control, a male can experience a more intense orgasm, as well as a larger volume of semen expelled during his ejaculation.[13] One technique, commonly referred to as 'edging', involves masturbating up until the moment before reaching the plateau phase just before orgasm occurs, and then stopping suddenly before experiencing a climax. Repeating this technique many times during a single masturbation session may result in a stronger, more intense orgasm.[14]
See also
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- Blue balls (pain)
- Chastity belt (BDSM)
- Coitus reservatus
- Delayed gratification
- Erotic sexual denial
- Eroto-comatose lucidity
- Forced orgasm
- Tantric sex
Notes
[edit]- ^ Gooning refers to a trance like mental state that some people experience as a result of edging for long periods of time, sometimes assisted by psychoactive substances. This activity is often accompanied and assisted by pornography usage.
References
[edit]- ^ Kokoski, Christopher (2022-09-10). "Gooning Sex Guide: What Is Gooning?". Sexography. Retrieved 2023-11-26.[dead link]
- ^ "The Psychedelic Science of 'Gooning' — Or Masturbating Into a Trance". MEL Magazine. 2020-11-21. Retrieved 2023-11-26.
- ^ a b Bodansky, Steve; Bodansky, Vera (2000). Extended Massive Orgasm: How You Can Give and Receive Intense Sexual Pleasure. Vermilion. pp. 91–98. ISBN 978-0-09-185743-1. OCLC 48109806.
- ^ "Edging: Definition, how-to, and benefits". www.medicalnewstoday.com. 2020-07-20. Retrieved 2023-11-26.
- ^ a b c Swiner, C. Nicole. "What Is Edging Sex?". WebMD. Retrieved 2023-11-26.
- ^ Comfort, Alex; Quilliam, Susan (2008). The New Joy of Sex. Mitchell Beazley. ISBN 978-1-84533-429-1. OCLC 300983363.
- ^ "Let's Talk About Semen Retention, Tantra's Best-Kept Secret For Male Pleasure". mindbodygreen. 2020-02-24. Retrieved 2023-11-26.
- ^ "What does Edge mean on TikTok?". Capital. Retrieved 2024-09-01.
- ^ Johnson, Stephen (2024-08-15). "'Mewing,' 'Sigma,' and Other Gen Z and Gen Alpha Slang You Might Need Help Decoding". Lifehacker. Retrieved 2024-09-01.
- ^ a b Pulley, Anna (2018-07-24). "How to Edge: The Art of Building Up to Extremely Intense Orgasms". Vice. Retrieved 2023-11-26.
- ^ "Edging: Take Your Orgasm to the Next Level". Kinkly.com. 27 July 2016. Retrieved 2023-11-26.
- ^ Serai, Vin (2022-05-17). "Tease and Denial Games: What They Are, Types & How to Play with Your Lover". LovePanky - Your Guide to Better Love and Relationships. Retrieved 2023-11-26.
- ^ "Does Edging Increase Sperm Count? | Allo Health". www.allohealth.care. 2023-06-22. Retrieved 2023-11-26.
- ^ Kandola, Aaron (2020-07-20). "Edging: Definition, how-to, and benefits". Medical News Today. Retrieved 2023-06-09.